By Dr. Roderick Logan, DPTh, DAAETS
Website: rodericklogan.com
Picture this: You are standing in the middle of a forest at dusk, holding a map that promises to lead you home. You have followed its directions faithfully for years, teaching your children to read its symbols, pointing out landmarks with confidence. Then one day, you look up and realize the map does not match the terrain. The promised paths lead to cliffs. The safe havens are nowhere to be found. Worse still, your children are watching, waiting for you to know what to do next.
This is the moment many fathers face when confronting religious trauma—not just their own, but the legacy they may unknowingly pass to the next generation. At the upcoming Fathers and Families Coalition of America 2027 Conference (April 13-17, 2027, at the Hilton Los Angeles Airport), I will facilitate a workshop titled "Reclaiming Faith, Hope, and Love: Finding Everland After Religious Trauma." The workshop is based on my soon-to-be-released book, Finding Everland: A Voyage Beyond Religious Trauma —A Psalm-Guided Journey to Resiliency.
What I have witnessed in coaching practice and preliminary workshop discussions is not just a conversation about recovering from harmful religious experiences, but a deeper exploration of how fathers can become architects of healing for themselves and their families.
The forest at dusk is not just a metaphor. It is where you are right now if you have experienced religious trauma. It is that suspended space between the faith community you left and the identity you are still forming. And if you are a father, you are not standing there alone. Your children are with you, looking to you for direction, even when you feel lost yourself.
Meaning: Rewriting the Stories That Define Us
Religious trauma does something particularly insidious to meaning-making. It takes the very frameworks we use to understand our lives—our values, our sense of right and wrong, our understanding of love and belonging—and weaponizes them. When the religious system that promised to give your life meaning instead causes harm, it creates a void that extends far beyond Sunday mornings.




















